My Girlfriend Loves to Sit with Different Men.

The day I met my girlfriend, she came to see someone who disappointed her in a fast food. I had ordered my food because the tables were all occupied so I just sat on the empty seat I saw. I asked her before I sat if she was waiting for anybody and she said I can sit down. I noticed she was just looking at me as I swallowed my rice and chicken while she was taking nothing, so I decided to ask her to take a drink on me which she agreed.

After the drink, I bought her food and we chatted and chatted but I noticed that nobody was even calling her not to talk about coming. So after our meal, I decided to drop her since she said the person she was expecting did not show up. I dropped her off and kissed her, I noticed she responded so I just fingered her to check if she was neat. We kissed goodbye and that was how we started talking after few weeks dating.

I don’t want to judge her with the first impression but most of my friends use to call me to tell me that they use to see my girl in different fast food joint sitting alone and later sitting with a man. Asaba is a very small town so my friends are almost everywhere because of the kind of job I do. So I asked my friend to test her, she does not know him and has never met him. He found her sitting alone in a bar and joined her. My girlfriend claimed that her boyfriend abandoned her and ran away. Please, I don’t get, is she a runs girl or just being stupid? I don’t get why she sits alone and lie that she was abandoned. Can someone explain to me?

Culled from break_or_makeup


Dear Poster,

I have questions for you. Do you go about fingering strangers that you meet? You have violated her by doing that. Maybe you feel that because you paid for her food then you can possibly toil with her body. Because you kissed her and she responded, then you decided to treat her as you like abi? That is disrespectful of you. Again those your friends should get something doing, so they move from one fast food joint to another, looking and noticing girls who sit alone? What is their business? You don’t want to judge her with the first impression, huh? What impression? That she allowed you kiss her. So you feel that you can act promiscuous but she can’t eh? because she is a girl. Don’t go there, please.

Anyway, I don’t know the right explanation to this ooo. I think the girl is up to some games. How can one intentionally sit in different bars waiting for invisible male friends or visible expecting to meet men?  Your ‘girlfriend’ need to tell you the truth about herself or her mission in different bars in Asaba. I feel she is in for games and might disappoint you but if you truly love her, then invite her for a chat and ask questions. Ask questions to ascertain why she is engaging in something very disrespectful to her personality. Find out if her mental capacity is okay. Also, know what is happening around her and if she opens up to you, Please give her the attention, care and help that she needs. Good luck.


Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s